Seems to me, the more LED's that are 'on' in parallel, the lower the total resistance and the lower the voltage drop across the LED's creating less light. You need to compensate by having the current limiting resistor change its value to keep the voltage drops constant (and thus the current in each diode constant)
A Zener diode will effectively do this, in series with the LED's.
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