What if we imagine space time as a flowing medium, much as a river.It is passing by stationary objects at the speed of light.Objects that are moving, it is passing by slower, only the diferrential of the object's speed and the speed of light.
Time would tend to pass slower as the object speeds up.We have to imagine this in 3 dimensions however to get the full effect.The "indentations" in space-time caused by matter are like the eddy currents (vortices) in a river as the water flows past a fixed object. A floating object, in synch with the river speed (C), creates no eddy currents, or "warps" in space time.
A more massive or denser object would create a larger vortex(indentation) in space time.
I wonder, are there any "eddy currents" (Gravity fluctuations) around uniformly massive objects in our universe?
Are there special shapes or mass distributions that could create a selectively shaped "vortex" in space time?