In India we used to use a product of a tree called Shikekai for washing / bathing may be 40 -50 years ago. The water used after washing / bathing used to be diverted to our plants and we had good kitchen garden. Ever since the development of detergent and alkaline soaps, we are unable to divert such water to the garden - as the plants will die.
We still do need soap and detergents for effective / better cleaning. In these days of global concerns for water conservation - why can't same MNCs come up with another huge business to neutralise soap / detergent after washing - so that the water could be recycled for domestic purpose. Only the toilet water could be let out to municipal drain. This way we can reduce water usage by merely 80 to 90%. Plumbing may have to be changed a bit.
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