How much you love your wife or hubby

Hmmm, I think most responses my be too personal to share.
All I can say is that when times are really tough, me & Mrs Cat are a great team, no questions asked, both pick up any slack and just run with what is necessary.
I think maybe adversity is the touchstone of a relationship, if it makes you stronger then it it will last.
Yeah of course we bicker about trivia and get on eachother wick... but hey, gimme a feisty woman any day.
When I crumped the car the other day she could see I was down and didn't give me a hard time (she even scratched behind my ears).
I'd been expecting a bit of a 'well you will race around blah blah blah'. It makes me appreciate her sensitivity...oh I'm embarrassing myself now, I'm going all mushy, I wub that cat...boo hooo sob yowl.
Del

Yeah, my partner died last month. She had a house abroad and spent about 1/2 her time there, 1/2 with me. That was no problem, but now she's dead I miss her a lot more than I expected.

Don't know whether that's the sort of thing you were after.

Cheers.........Codey

Sorry to hear that, I s'pose we all seem like we take things for granted a bit in a comfortable relationship. I can't really imagine how hard it must be, my thoughts are with you and yours.
Del

Thanks for that Del

It was cancer, diagnosed and treated a couple of years ago, but came back.

But there you go, plenty of people suffer bereavements, just have to get on with things!

Cheers...........Codey

Codey dear, really really sorry to hear your great loss. same with my wife 1/2 time here and 1/2 time in Canada with kids but when here we fight within 10 min of straight talk but when there I miss her most.

We can understand your great loss but take it this way when ever you feel down she is there by your side.

Thanks Ducon, and for post #6.

Codey

Well nothing big. Both Mrs. & self had out booking for Toronto to see the kids coming June 2oth., and just 3 days back we took out our passports but hers was MISSING.

we searched everywhere possible, searched n searched..and searched... the whole night non stop, no meals no food no breakfast and finally she started crying that it is really lost and the thought of getting a police certificate, informing Canadian embassy, applying for new duplicate ...by the time it arrives we'll miss the date of our flights etc., her crying converted griefing which started to increase by the hour . i just could'nt bear seeing her like that . It hurt me more. i continued searching...searching... and finally found it in a place where it was never possible to ever imagine. We both cried when we had had it in our hands.

This was the moment i realized that even after 32 years i could not bear to see her crying and in grief....I still love her.