It took years to amass all the tools to get to this point and finally this will be the math explanation of how age difference progresses between two participants when one changes the relative velocity and the other is unaware of the change during the delay of information period.
Why this is a big deal is because physicists have believed that relativity is solid and if it says it can't determine how age difference unfurls, then it must be impossible to do so. This logic is backwards, the conclusion should have been the theory is faulty. Obviously there must be an age difference progression and there are many guesses on what it is but this STD finally shows how it mathematically progresses.
In the STD below, Alice leaves earth at .6c and turns around at the 3ly mark at .8c. It's easy to read the final result that Alice ends up ageing 2.5 yrs less than Bob during her journey. Relativity has no idea if the age difference occurs as a lump sum or in a continuous even or uneven progression over the 4 yrs it takes Bob to realize there's been a change in relative velocity. In ralfativity, Bob and Alice do not have to reunite for age difference to be established as is arbitrarily required in relativity. (I'm being purposely lax in identifying Bob or Alice years as it should be obvious by now.)

It's going to take a while to fully explain what the STD is actually showing. In a nutshell, the thick purple lines are the instantaneous present Bob thinks is established between him and Alice. He believes no age difference is occurring because he doesn't know Alice has changed the relative velocity. Constant relative velocity creates no age difference. Please don't get this confused with reciprocal time dilation.
The thin orange lines are the actual instantaneous present Bob and Alice share during the info delay period. This imbalance in relative velocity causes Alice to age .625 Bob yrs less per Bob year as is shown in the right hand part of the STD. This is where most of the explaining will be.
The thin purple lines are what Alice surmises are the instantaneous lines of present between her and Bob. After Bob gets the news, he will also share the thin purple instantaneous lines of present as his new relative velocity is the same as Alice's and no further age difference will occur. Hence, the establishment of age difference does not need to wait for Bob and Alice to reunite. This is just a fact of relativity: constant relative velocity does not result in age difference so why do relativists continually insist that they must either co-locate or at least remain in a 0 relative velocity frame for the delay of info period. That belief actually contradicts relativity (and that's my job).
More when I can.