I do NOT
believe people have strengths or weaknesses. Instead, I believe we all have
characteristics and personality traits – the combination of which makes each of
us unique, like a personality fingerprint. (See Principle #2 in 8 Ways to Great).
Employers and companies are not looking for "perfect" people. Rather, they
are looking for people who can add value now and adapt and change as the
company/world changes.
I believe that if you change your attitude about traditional strengths and
weaknesses - and position yourself more as the person who understands how your
personality traits both help and hurt you in your role - then you have
automatically differentiated yourself from your co-workers. You'll also be more
than just "another employee."
Taking this approach shows you have highly desirable skills such as critical
thinking, creative engagement, problem solving, self-awareness, resilience, and
the ability to adapt to a changing environment. All of these traits are
excellent characteristics to be able to showcase as assets in the current
environment, too.
Two Ways to Stand Out
So how do you demonstrate this approach while you're on the job? How do you
let management know that you're working on these skills? First, ask to work on
a special project so you can showcase your skills. Set yourself up for success
by offering to do a project you are passionate about and one you know you'll be
fully engaged in - even if it means putting in time outside of work.
Another strategy is to ask for regular "check-ins" with your manager or boss.
This will give you a chance to showcase the progress you're making while
getting some corrective feedback. Keep these check-ins short (a few minutes
every week or two), however. The point is to let your boss or manager see how
you are learning, making mistakes, dealing with setbacks, adapting, growing,
and knocking stuff out along the way. If your boss wants to ask questions, then
stick around longer - but let that be his or her choice.
Dangers
Moving
yourself to the next level and becoming great is hard. Not just because of the
sacrifice and effort, but because of the social pressures you'll be faced with
along the way. Beware: your co-workers may get jealous and think you are
kissing butt to get ahead. But don't let this peer pressure deter your efforts.
That's their problem, not yours. Are you
working to make friends, or to be the best you can be in your role?
If
you want to be different and get ahead of the crowd, then you have to work
smarter and know that others are going to want to bring you down. Keep your
focus on yourself and know that you are doing this to add value to the
business, and to improve YOUR life and life for your FAMILY. That's the most
important thing there is.
Editor's Note: Dr. Doug Hirschhorn is an influential and
highly sought-after performance coach and executive trainer who appears
regularly on CNBC. His latest book, 8 Ways to Great, is now available.
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