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Today’s world is filled with potential failure. Human beings fear failure. If I don’t do this correctly what will happen? Will my failure define me?
Failure is an omission of occurrence. It is falling short of expectations or not being able to perform as expected. Sounds simple, yet it means so much more.
Everyone at some point in life will fail. What I am referring to is real failure, grand failure. The kind of failure that makes you question things like judgment, confidence and self-worth. This kind of failure is the soul-searching, life-changing kind, where you wonder if you are in the right place or if you belong somewhere else.

Being able to take why you failed and learn something is painful. You must be able to admit your mistakes and not place blame. Then you must get up and move forward. If failure affects you, it doesn’t matter who made it happen, it matters who is responsible. Once you understand what happened, you can learn how and why. If you know the answers to these questions, you will learn. Learning is growing which is the bridge between failure and success.
The best way to become a success is to fail on a grand scale. What matters most after failure is looking inside yourself to determine the answers to those questions. When you own the answers, you can begin to make changes that bring things full circle.
Next time you are pondering a failure, look in the mirror and ask yourself those “who what why how” questions. Be the journalist of your failure. Research people who have inspiring success stories. Those people gave themselves permission to fail. They used that failure to propel themselves forward and achieve greatness. I am giving you permission to fail. Use it. Propel yourself forward.
Editor's note: This is a guest blog post by Julie Basello for Radwell International.
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