I recently replied to a post in the "Engineering Careers" section and felt that it should be repeated here so I will adapt my reply into a post in the "General" section as well. The following is what I had to say:
The more I read the replies on this forum the more discouraged I
get. The people that seem to reply the most seem to spend their time
berating what they feel is the stupidity of the original poster and not
actually helping with a situation. When someone posts a question they
are actually displaying ignorance. Never in my life have I been ashamed
of ignorance. It simply means that someone has not had another person
explain something to them yet. Ignorance is an opportunity to expand
your knowledge base. That is what people are trying to do here.
I posted a question a few months back and was actually reticent to
post it because I didn't want to hear the derisive comments that I was
sure would flow from the usual suspects. I was shocked to see how
quickly people responded to my post. Within five minutes after posting I
was receiving replies. Some of them were helpful but some contained the
usual "homework" and "interview" comments that degrade the intended
purpose of this forum. These members that reply in the negative seem to
post more of these kind of responses than actual helpful replies and it
also seems that they are the ones that reply the fastest. Its as if they
were waiting for a chance to shoot someone down instead of helping them
up. There was a reply I saw in the last few days that stands out as a
prime example of this. The person replying had posted over 550 "answers"
to people's questions and only five of them had been categorized as
good. If this is any indication, this person spends less than 1% of
their time actually being helpful to other people.
I guess what I am trying to say is that if you can't offer some
useful advise to the people that are trying to reduce their level of
ignorance - not to be confused with stupidity, which just might be what
the useless repliers are exhibiting - why waste your time and the time
of everyone else.
I will add a few things here that occurred to me after I posted my original reply. At the risk of being to general and delving too deeply into the psychological landscape, I pose this question: Could it be that the negative repliers are possibly compensating for childhood feelings of inadequacy? Could it be that they were bullied as children - this is, after all, an engineering forum - and are seizing on the opportunity to bully from the anonymity of the internet?
While I understand the "Tips for posting on CR4" that are staring me in the face as I submit this and fully realize that some people do not follow the guidelines spelled out above this little box in which I am typing, maybe if the "usual suspects" mentioned in my original reply would spend more of their time building up instead of tearing down the people that are earnestly trying to find answers to life's persistent questions (do I have to give Garrison Keillor credit for that) there would be fewer people that would need to post questions here.
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