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What did you want to be when you 'grew up'?

06/29/2008 9:49 PM

I posed this question as a part of another thread, but it is suggested by others it might deserve a post of it's own, so here goes:

When I was a kid, there were, of course, the fantasy (albeit largely unknown) issues of 'pilot', 'astronaut', 'engineer' (whatever that really is), and so forth. As I 'grew up', however, the dreams changed as I learned more of what was 'real and possible' and what was, at least, 'not likely', until finally about all I could do was take what were my attributes and see where they might 'fit'. At the time, about all I could do was know that I was a 'pleaser', I liked to 'solve problems', my IQ (to bad my EQ doesn't match) allowed me to be somewhat 'complete' in my solutions, and I liked 'change' because I had the ability to 'adapt to the changes'.

Interestingly, people skills developed much later, and wisdom still trickles in, and this eventually allowed me to lead others.

SURPRISING TO SOME, I considered the ministry for some time, as my real love is teaching and counseling, but this didn't happen for a variety of reasons. Still, my greatest joy in my career is teaching others, solving problems (both technical and personnel-related), and seeing others grow and learn.

All in all, not exactly a departure from my childhood 'dreams', but hardly specific to what those dreams were at the time.

SO, what about all of you?

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07/03/2008 9:10 PM

Astronaut -> Computer Engineer -> Mechanical Engineer -> Good Dad.

As a consumer of way too much black & white / early color TV as a kid, Fred McMurray from "My Three Sons", and Bill Bixby from "The Courtship of Eddie's Father" all were powerful influencers on me as a kid. Oh yea, forgot the "Professor" from "Nanny and the Professor". "The Saint" with Roger Moore, and of course, Sean Connery's 007 weighed heavily on my young mind, too.

My dad, who had a few small businesses (yea, plural - they'd ride high for a while and then crash:), along with an uncle who was a project engineer at IBM, also played a big role, of course.

Those jets doing sonic booms over the skys of Troy, NY in the late 1960's (before this got banned), along with the moon landing, also were big influencers on the path I chose. Too much cool stuff was happening in science and technology not to want to be an engineer back then! :)

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07/04/2008 4:28 AM

-> Good Dad.

Bravo, well said and a great ideal for all men to strive for. Sadly this aim seems to be lacking today judging by the number of single parent families.

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07/04/2008 5:32 AM

I'll 'third' that as a good answer as well. Many problems we read daily In the 'West' seem to arise because of people abdicating parental responsibility & kids not growing up in a supportive family environment. I'm, neither 'Victorian' or religious in attitude, but the UK Government does little to support 'family values'. Just recently the number of couples living together who are not married exceed those who are married. That lack of commitment adds to the increase in family breakdown. I'm (amicably) separated from Mrs K, but we see each other every day, and usually share the same bed at bight. My work hours just cause too much hassle for us to live under the same roof 24/7. To all observation we are still a normal married couple. K Junior is well adjusted to the situation. Apart from me and Mrs K still loving each other, we've always had it as a primary goal for K junior to be a 'good citizen' before anything else.

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07/04/2008 10:20 AM

Although I didn't have the necessary awareness or maturity then to understand my motivations, it was clear to me that a self actualized life meant doing everything!

It would take almost 70 orbits around the sun before I discovered that I have as part of my genome the "Edison Gene". This explains in part perhaps why the pursuit of novelty has been such a fundamental imperative in my life.

It was perhaps apparent to others that the need for self expression was also a driving force. If it was not as apparent to me it was likely because I am an impulsive person: when I get an idea I pursue it. When I tire of it, I change activities or directions.

The only constant in the last 25 years is my passion for mechanical design for which I still have a consummate addiction.

I was but 30 when someone first called me a Renaissance Man. Being less than worldly, I did not recognize the historical meaning of that term. I interpreted it instead as suggesting that my thinking was old, outdated. My naivete caused some laughter and further embarrassed me! However, it's obvious that the term fits like the proverbial glove.

In his famous book "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance" Robert Persig wrote"

"The hero of the Odyssey is a great fighter, a wily schemer, a ready speaker, a man of stout heart and broad wisdom who knows that he must endure, without too much complaining, what the gods send; and he can both build and sail a boat, drive a furrow as straight as anyone, beat a young braggart at throwing the discus, challenge the Pheacian youth at boxing, wrestling or running; flay, skin, cut up and cook an ox, and be moved to tears by a song. He is in fact an all rounder; he has surpassing arete.

Arete implies a respect for the wholeness or oneness of life, and a consequent dislike of specialization. It implies a contempt for efficiency or rather a much higher idea of efficiency which exists not in one department of life but in life itself."

Add to this wisdom the sage counsel of Joseph Campbell who urged us to always "Follow Your Bliss" and you can appreciate why the idea of picking just one field and "growing up" have never entered my mind. I am too busy growing to stop and "grow up".

The organic machine I live inside of is starting to show the ravages of time but my spirit is still young, vibrant and alive.

And THAT has made all the difference, especially when it has been my privilege to stand in front of a classroom.

It's not the information we have nor the techniques we "teach" that make a difference in the world. Rather, it's the context we live our lives from and the one we create for others that inspires others to learn.

Perhaps that's why a highly perceptive Guatemalan shaman gave me the nickname of "Laughing Jaguar"

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07/04/2008 10:28 AM

Good answer...

How many of us consider ourselves Renaisance Men?

I like to think of myself as a renaisance Cat....music and languages would be the gaps in my repertoire, but hey ya can't win em all.

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07/04/2008 10:42 AM

Thanks Del!

". . . . . but hey ya can't win em all"

And who invented THAT rule?!

As for cats. . . . cats are cool, awesome creatures that can stare at you and somehow . . . . they know! Not sure I'd want to come back as one. Perhaps, but I think the idea of coming back as a Blues guitarist would allow for greater self expression.

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07/04/2008 10:57 AM

My interests are engineering, science, music, philosophy, literature, theology.... oh and renaissance architecture and art... Hmmmmmm

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07/04/2008 11:10 AM

"Renaissance Cat"

You have no idea how bad I'm laughing - Its like my 'Baroque dog' .The 'cubist squirrel' has to be seen to be believed.. My minimalist hamster deserves a web page of his own. Tracy Emmin don't know jack.My tent, my ****. Damien Hurst? Not a bloody clue. Try and tell me you wouldn't prefer Sardines or Tuna on a plate.. Shark in a tank my ****. The only good art I've seen is yours. I know. I'm grovelling shit, but it's true. I want to see more ( art, that is)

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07/04/2008 1:19 PM

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07/06/2008 7:52 PM

And all this time Del, I thought you were fluent in Catonese...

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07/06/2008 8:05 PM

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07/07/2008 11:53 AM

Shame of it is, I can't give but one "GA" vote for it! We seem to share more than genus and species...

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07/06/2008 11:06 PM

At 65 I still haven;t found the dream --- had a great career with the USAF civil service for 29 years but still explored various dream jobs. Still haven't found it but still dreaming -- maybe that is what keeps me young in hope that I will find it. Still working and still searching --- But the lottery could help -- then I could try anything I want -- and if it didn't work --- oh well -- on to something else. LOL

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07/09/2008 12:36 PM

I debated and I guess I will do it.

Age 6: A Gynecologist. I didn't know what that word was, but I had discovered that girls were different.

Age 8: A jet pilot with Gynecology as a side line.

Age 10: A chemist but still interested in gynecology

Age 13: Architecture but still leaning toward amateur gynecology.

Age 18: Electronics. The University convinced me that Architecture was not my bag. Continued Gyn as a no credit lab project.

Age 25: Got married so I had to give up my lab research

Age 61: Need a spell checker to remember how to spell gynecology

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07/09/2008 12:48 PM

But it's still an interesting hobby, eh?!?

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07/09/2008 6:24 PM

Truly priceless ... thanks.

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07/09/2008 6:52 PM

I'm stilll laughing. Nice one - probably the funniest I ever read on CR4. Classic

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